Manila, Philippines — The fairy tale is officially over. After months of speculation and silence, actress and TV personality Ruffa Gutierrez has confirmed that she and former Quezon City Mayor Herbert Bautista have ended their relationship — and according to those close to the actress, “Napakasakit ng ginawa ni Herbert.”

The two had once stunned fans with their unexpected but promising romance. From sweet exchanges online to subtle public appearances, many believed this unlikely love story would go the distance. But now, it’s all come crashing down.

“It wasn’t just a breakup,” a close source shared. “It was heartbreak — betrayal on a level Ruffa didn’t see coming.”

The End of a Quiet Love Story

Ruffa and Herbert never paraded their relationship like most celebrity couples, but insiders knew their bond was deep and serious. They were reportedly talking about long-term plans, and Ruffa had even softened her stance on love after years of guarded emotions.

“She really believed this was it,” the insider said. “She saw him as someone stable, someone who respected her.”

But just when everything seemed to be falling into place — it all fell apart behind the scenes.

The Alleged Betrayal: “She Didn’t Deserve That”

According to sources, the real reason behind the split was a “painful betrayal” on Herbert’s part — something that left Ruffa feeling blindsided and deeply hurt.

While neither party has spoken directly about the incident, people close to Ruffa say she discovered something Herbert was keeping from her — and when she confronted him, his reaction broke her even more.

“There were things she had to find out through other people,” the source revealed. “She felt disrespected, lied to, and emotionally abandoned.”

Ruffa’s Silent Struggle: “She’s Putting on a Brave Face”

Ruffa Gutierrez has always been known for her elegance and strength, and despite her pain, she’s choosing to stay silent publicly — for now.

On her Instagram, she recently posted a quote that sparked curiosity:

“Sometimes, silence is the loudest scream.”

Fans immediately sensed something was wrong, with many expressing concern and support:

“Please be okay, Queen Ruffa.”

“No one deserves to be hurt like that. We love you!”

“Herbert, how could you?”

Herbert’s Side: No Official Statement Yet

As of now, Herbert Bautista has not released any statement, nor has he addressed the issue on his social media accounts. Some observers say he’s choosing to stay quiet to avoid backlash, while others speculate he’s hoping things can still be fixed privately.

But fans aren’t having it.

“He should at least acknowledge her pain,” one netizen wrote.
“If he truly loved her, he wouldn’t let her go through this alone.”

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Friends Speak Out: “She Gave It Her All”

Several of Ruffa’s friends have come forward (off the record) to express their anger and disappointment over how things ended:

“Ruffa loved him. She was loyal. He wasn’t. That’s the truth,” said one close friend.
“She deserves a man who won’t just love her when it’s convenient.”

Fans React: “She Will Rise Again”

Despite the heartbreak, Ruffa’s fans remain loyal and vocal in their support:

“Ruffa has survived worse. She will rise stronger.”

“She’s a queen. And no man can take that away.”

“Don’t worry, Ruffa — your real king is still on his way.”

Hashtags like #JusticeForRuffa, #RuffaDeservesBetter, and #ByeHerbert quickly trended across social media.

Conclusion: Love Lost, Lessons Gained

What was once a story of hope and second chances has ended in silence, pain, and unanswered questions. And while Ruffa Gutierrez may not be speaking out publicly, her actions — and her silence — say it all.

She gave love. She gave trust. And in the end, she walked away with dignity.

And sometimes, that’s all a queen can do.

Ruffa Gutierrez reveals she and Herbert Bautista are no longer on speaking terms
Ruffa Gutierrez revealed in her guest appearance on Boy Abunda on Thursday, June 12, that she and Herbert Bautista are currently not on speaking terms and that their relationship is going through a “bump.”

According to Ruffa, she doesn’t know yet if this situation will last or if they will talk again.

“I’ve been busy, and he has other things that he should take care of as well regarding personal matters,” Ruffa said. She also said that maybe this is the right time for them to think about whether they should continue the relationship or break up.

It can be recalled that in June 2024, Ruffa admitted that her relationship with Bautista is serious, even though she wants to keep their love life private.

Meanwhile, in the same interview, Ruffa was asked about the relationship between her brother Richard Gutierrez and Barbie Imperial. According to Ruffa, sometimes they are okay, sometimes there is a “bump