One of the most talked-about couples in Philippine showbiz, Ellen Adarna and Derek Ramsay, have always been open about their relationship. However, fans have been curious about why the couple hasn’t yet expanded their family. Now, Ellen has finally opened up and shared the heartfelt reasons behind their decision to delay having children.

The Truth Behind the Delay

In a recent candid interview, Ellen Adarna revealed that despite their love and strong bond, she and Derek have consciously chosen not to rush into parenthood. Ellen explained that they want to be absolutely ready emotionally, mentally, and physically before welcoming a child into their lives.

“It’s not about the pressure or what others think. We want to make sure that when we have a baby, we are fully prepared — not just as partners, but as parents,” Ellen said sincerely.

Health and Timing Considerations

Ellen also touched on some health concerns and lifestyle factors that played a role in their decision. She emphasized the importance of well-being and stability before taking on the responsibilities of parenthood.

“Pregnancy is a beautiful journey, but it requires so much care and readiness. We’re focusing on being our best selves first,” she added.

Derek’s Support and Understanding

Derek Ramsay, known for his maturity and wisdom, fully supports Ellen’s perspective. Close friends say that Derek believes in “quality over timing,” valuing the right moment to grow their family over societal expectations.

What Fans Should Know

Fans and followers have been quick to show their support and understanding, praising Ellen and Derek for being honest and thoughtful about their choices. Many appreciate their candidness amid a culture that often pressures celebrities to conform to traditional timelines.

Looking Ahead

While Ellen and Derek continue to enjoy their life together, they remain hopeful about starting a family when the time is right. For now, their focus is on building a strong foundation of love and stability.


In the end, Ellen Adarna’s heartfelt revelation reminds us that parenthood is a personal journey — one that deserves patience, preparation, and respect. When the time comes, it will surely be a joyous new chapter for Ellen and Derek.

Derek Ramsay slams basher who said he’s not the father of his and Ellen’s baby
Derek Ramsay slammed a basher who said he’s not the father of his and Ellen Adarna’s baby.

On his Instagram Story, Derek posted a photo of himself with Ellen and their baby.

A basher commented on it saying, “That’s not his baby. It was on the news that he did a DNA test and he wasn’t the baby daddy.”

Derek’s response was joking but accurate:

“Omg!! Was the DNA test sent to you? That’s why I didn’t get it.”