“I Gave Him Everything—And He Didn’t Even Say Sorry”: Pokwang Breaks Her Silence on Lee O’Brian

Manila, Philippines – After years of silence, Filipino comedienne and actress Pokwang has finally spoken out about the heartbreak that changed her life. In a tearful interview, the beloved entertainer revealed the deep pain and regret she feels over the six years she spent with American actor Lee O’Brian, the father of her child—and a man who, she says, “never even apologized.”

The revelation has left fans reeling, as Pokwang—known for her humor and resilience—showed a rarely seen vulnerable side. Behind the laughter and fame was a woman silently enduring emotional sacrifice, disappointment, and what she now calls “a love that was never fully returned.”

A Love Story That Turned Into Heartbreak

Pokwang (real name: Marietta Subong) and Lee O’Brian met in 2014 on the set of the indie film Edsa Woolworth. Their chemistry was undeniable, both onscreen and off. By 2015, they were officially a couple and later welcomed their daughter, Malia, into the world in 2018.

To many, they seemed happy. But behind the scenes, cracks were forming.

“I gave him everything,” Pokwang confessed. “I changed my lifestyle, adjusted my career, cooked his food, helped him adapt to the Philippines. I made sacrifices I never even made in my past relationships—because I really believed this would last.”

But what she received in return, she now says, was indifference.

The Silent Pain: “He Never Said Sorry”

Despite doing all she could to keep the family together, Pokwang said that Lee slowly became distant. Their cultural differences grew more obvious, and communication started breaking down. But it wasn’t just the cultural gap—it was, according to her, a lack of appreciation.

“He left without saying sorry. No explanation. No closure. Nothing,” she said, holding back tears. “For someone to share six years of their life with you, give you a child, and you can’t even say ‘I’m sorry’ or **‘thank you’? That’s the deepest cut of all.”

The emotional wounds remain fresh. “People think I’m strong. Yes, I am. But even the strongest hearts break when they’re not loved back.”

A Mother’s Fight for Her Child

After the separation, Pokwang made a decision: to protect her daughter at all costs. She filed legal cases against Lee O’Brian, asserting her sole custody rights and requesting that he no longer interfere in their child’s life.

“I don’t want her to grow up confused. I will raise her with clarity, love, and truth. I’m both her mother and her father now.”

In 2023, the court ruled in Pokwang’s favor—granting her full custody of their daughter and stripping Lee of parental authority.

From Silence to Strength: “No More Pretending”

Pokwang admitted that for years, she chose to stay silent to “keep the peace.” But now, she’s done pretending.

“I kept quiet because I wanted to protect our daughter. I didn’t want her to read hurtful things online. But now I realize—my silence was mistaken for weakness.”

She added, “I’ve made peace with the past, but I will never forget how I was treated. All I wanted was respect and honesty.”

Public Support Pours In

Since her emotional revelations, netizens and fans have flooded social media with messages of support, praising her strength and condemning the silence from Lee O’Brian.

“You are a queen, Pokwang. You don’t deserve to be treated that way,” wrote one fan.

“Lee O’Brian should be ashamed. Six years and not even a sorry? Pokwang deserves better,” another commented.

Moving Forward With Dignity

Despite the pain, Pokwang remains committed to healing—and to making sure her daughter grows up in a home full of love.

“I will never regret my daughter. She is my miracle. But yes, I regret the man I gave six years of my life to.”

She continued, “I am finally learning to love myself again. No more chasing people who don’t value me.”

The Final Word: “Never Again”

When asked if she would ever reconcile or forgive Lee, her answer was clear:

“Forgiveness is for the strong—and I’m getting there. But going back? Never again. Not after what I went through. I’ve learned my lesson the hardest way.”

Conclusion: A Painful Chapter Ends, But a Stronger Woman Emerges

Pokwang’s story is not just one of heartbreak—it’s one of rising from the ashes. She may have lost time, tears, and trust—but she gained strength, clarity, and self-worth.

And as she walks away from the shadows of a painful love, she stands tall—not as a woman scorned, but as a mother, survivor, and icon who finally said: Enough.

Pokwang says Lee O’Brian was her ‘spouse’
MAYNILA – Comedian Pokwang has made some harsh comments about her ex-partner Lee O’Brian.

On her Instagram account, Pokwang couldn’t help but respond to a netizen’s comment that seemed to blame the comedian for her breakup with O’Brian.

Pokwang posted a video in which she encouraged her followers to buy property in a beach resort in Luzon.

But one netizen couldn’t help but comment in the comment section: “That’s why she left because she was so jealous.” The comedian didn’t like the netizen’s comment and hit back, saying that O’Brian was her ‘spouse’ for six years and that he also allegedly didn’t support their daughter Malia.

“I just woke up to the fact that I’ve been a ‘spouse’ for six years and no child support for five years! Don’t do it, you might get caught up in our lawsuit hahahhahaa,” Pokwang said.

She continued, saying that her ex-partner didn’t leave her because she was the one who kicked her out.

“And fyi I didn’t leave her bwahahhaaahaaa ask her why I kicked her out!!!!! Ask her now! She’s a B*B* who’s a slut!!!”

Pokwang also teased that O’ Brian won’t punish the said netizen. She even suspected that the person who commented might be a friend of the new woman the actor is dating who commented, “Are you super defensive? Hahahahahaa, you won’t punish her if you’re just a loser!!! Or is the woman involved your friend? please congratulate him, he succeeded in breaking our son’s heart who was dreaming of being together again,” the actress teased.

This is not the first time Pokwang has had a comeback with O’Brian. Last week, Pokwang made it known on her Instagram account that O’Brian was allegedly flirting with someone else, so they will not be getting back together again.

Did Pokwang reveal ex-partner Lee O’Brian is dating again?

“It’s gone hahahahahahaaahaa she’s flirting with someone else hahahhahahahahaa didn’t make an effort to swallow the pride chicken for Tisay,” Pokwang replied to Kim Atienza’s comment on her post.

In November, Pokwang confirmed that she and O’Brian were no longer together but that their divorce was amicable.

In fact, O’Brian even brought his daughter Malia to America based on the comedian’s post.