In a deeply personal and heartfelt revelation, actress and producer Harlene Bautista has finally opened up about the real reason behind her much-talked-about separation from actor Romnick Sarmenta, ending years of speculation and public curiosity.

Speaking in an exclusive interview, Harlene shared that while their breakup was not caused by infidelity or scandal—as many rumors suggested—it stemmed from a gradual emotional distance and personal growth that led them to take different paths.

“We didn’t break up because of a third party. We didn’t break up because of a big fight,” Harlene said.
“Sometimes, people just grow in different directions. And that’s what happened to us.”

The former couple, who had been together for more than two decades and share five children, were known in the industry as one of the most enduring love teams turned real-life couples. Their separation in 2018 came as a surprise to many, with fans expressing sadness and disbelief.

But for Harlene, the decision to part ways wasn’t made lightly.

“It was years of reflection. We tried, and we worked hard to make it last, especially for the sake of the family,” she said.
“But in the end, staying together would have meant denying ourselves the chance to grow as individuals.”

Harlene was also quick to emphasize the deep respect and friendship that she and Romnick continue to share.

“Romnick will always be family to me,” she said.
“He’s a wonderful father, and we will always work together in raising our children. That’s our lifelong commitment, even if our romantic relationship ended.”

The actress also urged the public to be more understanding and less judgmental when it comes to failed marriages.

“People expect love stories to be perfect and eternal, but real life isn’t like the movies. Real love sometimes means letting go peacefully and with dignity,” she concluded.

Her candid admission has earned praise online, with many netizens thanking her for showing that separation doesn’t always have to be bitter, and that maturity, respect, and love for family can still prevail in the face of change.

Harlene Bautista speaks out about her split with Romnick Sarmenta
Former couple Harlene Bautista and Romnick Sarmenta remain friends despite their separation.
’90s matinee idol Romnick Sarmeta and actress Harlene Bautista have separated after 16 years of being married.

In a report by 24 Oras, Harlene gave a brief statement about her and Romnick’s separation.

She said she and Romnick are still on good terms, “I’m very happy, and at peace. We’re friends.”

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