Manila, Philippines — Actress Lotlot De Leon found herself in the middle of a heated debate on social media after sharing her visit to the grave of her late mother, the iconic Nora Aunor, on Mother’s Day. While the heartfelt gesture was meant to honor her mother’s memory, the post sparked controversy, as some netizens criticized her for allegedly “showing off” her visit to Ate Guy’s gravesite.

The Controversial Post

On Mother’s Day, Lotlot posted a photo of herself at her mother’s grave, with a message that reflected her longing and admiration for the late Superstar. The post quickly garnered attention, with many fans offering words of sympathy and appreciation for Ate Guy’s legacy. However, a number of people expressed their discontent, claiming that Lotlot’s decision to share such a personal moment was inappropriate.

In the post, Lotlot wrote, “Still in our hearts, Ate Guy. We miss you so much. Thank you for everything.” While some fans understood the emotional significance behind the post, others felt that she was using the moment for public attention.

The Backlash

Many netizens took to social media to express their disapproval. Some questioned Lotlot’s intention behind sharing such a private family moment with the public, suggesting that it might have been done to gain sympathy or online clout. One commenter wrote, “It’s one thing to miss your mom, but sharing it online seems a bit much. Personal moments like these should be kept private.”

Another person remarked, “I don’t think this is the right way to honor Ate Guy. It feels like she’s trying to get sympathy from her followers.” These comments triggered a wave of responses, with some defending Lotlot’s actions and others calling for her to be more considerate of her family’s privacy.

The Public’s Opinion

Despite the criticism, there were also those who came to Lotlot’s defense. Supporters argued that she had every right to express her emotions and share her tribute to her late mother in a way that felt right to her. “Lotlot has every right to miss her mom and share that with the world if she chooses to,” one fan commented. “It’s her way of remembering Ate Guy and showing the love she has for her.”

However, the incident sparked further discussions on social media about the line between sharing personal moments online and respecting family privacy. Some followers pointed out that celebrities are often scrutinized for their every move, leading to mixed reactions when they share vulnerable moments with their audience.

A Family’s Private Grief Made Public

While the post may have been intended as a tribute to her mother, the backlash reveals the complex nature of public mourning in the age of social media. What might be a personal expression of grief for one person can be perceived differently by others, especially when shared on a platform with millions of users.

For Lotlot De Leon, the experience highlights how even well-meaning acts of remembrance can spark controversy when shared publicly. As the public figure grapples with the criticism, her family’s grief is now part of the online conversation, raising questions about the role of social media in personal loss.

Conclusion: Lotlot De Leon’s visit to Nora Aunor’s gravesite may have been an emotional tribute to her late mother, but it has sparked intense debate on social media about the line between private grief and public expression. While some fans expressed admiration for Lotlot’s open display of love, others felt that the post was inappropriate. This incident serves as a reminder of the complexities surrounding celebrity grief and the public’s scrutiny of their personal lives.

Lotlot promises late Nora Aunor: Will take care of your legacy, Ma!
The legacy and legacy of the late Superstar Nora Aunor will continue.

That was Lotlot de Leon’s promise in his latest Instagram post after his mother was taken to her final destination at the Libingan ng mga Bayani.

Lotlot also admitted that he continues to strive to be strong despite his grief.

“Hi ma.. Ma, you know I find myself talking to you everyday. And I know you’re listening. I’ve already told you everything, mommy,” he began, including a throwback photo of them together. He continued in the caption, “And I also know that what you told me was my siblings and grandchildren. What you taught me to be strong is what I’m really trying to do,” said Lotlot.

The actress also mentioned that her siblings Ian, Matet, Kiko, and Kenneth became closer because of their mother, and promised to continue to cherish her legacy.

“Mom, many people love you. So much! I hope you can see that. They all showed up for you and our family and we, your children, are so grateful. Ian, Matet, Kiko, Ken, and I,” she said on IG.

She also asked her late mother, “Just look after us always, ma.. I know you won’t abandon us in every decision we siblings make. And we are even more united because of you.”

“And we promise to take care of your legacy, Ma, we are my siblings. Rest easy ma…Your daughter forever, Lot,” Lotlot concluded his post. It will be recalled that on the last night of Ate Guy’s funeral, Lotlot shared in his eulogy the last text message he received from his mother where the legendary actress tried not to reveal her true condition so that her daughter would not worry.

In an interview, Ian also shared the last message his mother sent him where she prayed to God for the safety of the loved ones she would leave behind.

“Lord, wherever my children go, please hold them, protect them from all dangers and always bring them home safely,” said Ian, who read Nora’s text to him during an interview on the program “Fast Talk with Boy Abunda.”

It will be recalled that Nora passed away on April 16 at the age of 71 due to acute respiratory failure.