The Price of Silence: Amina’s Long Long Struggle

 

The wind blew hard that night, bringing with it the distant echo of the drums, the same ones that resounded on Amina’s wedding day. A wedding she never asked for, a tradition imposed on her small eight-year-old shoulders. Her life, which had once been filled with games and laughter, had now been plunged into a silent and heavy darkness.

Amina was in the cold room of her new home, in the mansion of Alhaji Umar, her husband. The house, large and luxurious, felt empty to her. The walls, with their gold and red hues, reflected the opulence I had never wanted or understood. How could an eight-year-old girl imagine living there? The fragrance of expensive perfumes hung through the air, but to her everything smelled of confinement.

The man who was now her husband was eighty years old, and although he had not yet touched her in a way that caused her physical pain, his eyes were enough to show Amina the weight of life that awaited her. He didn’t look at her as a child, but as just another possession, as something he’d earned by being able to pay off a debt his family could never pay.

The first few weeks passed as if I was in a kind of trance. He spent his days cleaning the house, cooking for himself and his four previous wives. Each of them was older than her, but none of them dared to stand up to him. Amina didn’t quite understand why her mother had allowed this to happen, but she no longer had the strength to ask. Guilt had consumed her. His eyes couldn’t look for answers, they couldn’t face the cruel reality he was living in now.

One night, while cleaning the room, Amina heard a strange voice at the door. It was a different sound from her husband’s footsteps, softer, more worried. When he opened the door, he found a young man soaked by the rain. She had dark hair, a restless look, and didn’t look like she belonged to the same family of stern men around her. He was, he told her, the grandson of Alhaji Umar, a university student who had returned from abroad to visit his grandfather. Amina looked at him, bewildered. His eyes met his, and for the first time in a long time, he saw a spark of humanity in someone.

“Who are you?” asked the young man, seeing that Amina was wearing the wedding necklace.

“I am his wife,” she answered, though the words burned his tongue. She wasn’t sure if she was a wife in the traditional sense, but that burden had been placed on her.

The young man, with a surprised face, was silent for a moment. Something in his expression changed, as if suddenly the puzzle piece fell into place. He didn’t say anything, but his eyes showed the internal conflict that was beginning to brew in him. That night, Amina, unaware of what it would do, took a step into a new life. There was no turning back.

The days passed, and Amina felt more watched by the young man. He approached her often, talked to her without haste, without judging her. He asked her about her life in the village, about her dreams, about her fears. And little by little, Amina began to trust him, although she did not know what to do with those feelings of insecurity that arose in her. Could he trust anyone else? She had been taught to be obedient, not to defy the destiny that had been given to her. But over time, the young man began to show her that, even in the shadows, there was light.

One day, after days of careful insistence, he convinced her to leave the mansion. They went to the local market, a place full of life, laughter and noise, something completely alien to the stillness he had known at home. Amina felt strange at first, as if she was doing something forbidden, but walking through the streets, she felt freedom for the first time in a long time. Hope welled up in his heart: perhaps there was still something good in the world.

The young man told her about his family, about his studies, about how he had decided to return home after years away. But what surprised Amina the most was her vision of the world. He didn’t talk about money or power, he didn’t care about his family’s social status. The only thing that interested him was human life, respect, freedom of choice.

That night, as Amina thought about everything that had happened, she felt that she had taken a significant step toward a new life. Although she was still young, and fear kept her captive at times, she began to see a future where she could decide her destiny.

In an unexpected twist, the young man revealed to Amina that he was not simply visiting. He had been researching the legacy of his grandfather, Alhaji Umar, and was determined to fight for change within his family. The grandfather, although powerful, had left behind an empire that was crumbling due to his bad decisions, and the young man wanted to undo that network of oppression and control that his grandfather had created, starting with Amina.

Amina was surprised by his bravery. Although at first he hesitated, he decided to listen to him. Perhaps this opportunity that presented itself to her could be her chance to escape, to create something new for herself.

With the support of the young man, Amina began to talk about her situation, about the control she had been subjected to. I had never had a voice. Now, thanks to this new connection, she began to find the strength to change. But the road was not easy. The challenges were still great, and she was still tied to the man who had married her without her consent. However, every day he felt stronger, and the young man became a fundamental ally in his fight for freedom.

A short time later, the young man began to help him with his education. He paid for her to take law classes, something she had always wanted, but which had been impossible due to her circumstances. She became a passionate student, determined to change her destiny. Meanwhile, the young man began to mobilize his family to raise awareness about the damage his grandfather had caused.

One day, while studying, Amina received a letter. The letter was from his mother, who had been silent for a long time. In the letter, her mother apologized for the decision to marry her to Alhaji Umar. He explained that he had been trapped by fear and tradition, and that he wanted Amina to forgive the decision he had made on her behalf.

Amina, her heart racing, read the letter several times. Eventually, she decided she couldn’t blame her mother anymore. She decided that, although the past could never be erased, she had the right to build her future. With a new resolution, Amina wrote to her mother, telling her that she forgave her, but that she was no longer a child. She had the strength to choose her path.

The Big Change: The Outcome

Months later, Amina, with the support of the young man, managed to obtain her freedom. It was a long process, full of obstacles, but with the determination to find her voice, she managed to have her marriage to Alhaji Umar annulled. Her mother, although surprised, finally accepted her daughter’s decision. With a promising future, Amina began working on her career as a lawyer and helping women who, like her, had been victims of tradition and control.

Years later, Amina became a respected human rights defender and one of the most influential lawyers in her country. In her personal life, she found love, but she also made sure to never lose sight of what really mattered: her independence, her freedom, and her fight for justice.

One day, while walking around town, Amina stopped at an antique shop. There, in a glass case, he saw an antique mirror. Looking at herself in it, she realized that, finally, she saw herself as the person she always wanted to be: strong, free, and determined.

“Now I’m myself,” she thought, smiling. “And I will never go back.”

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