Kim Aspero’s Family Defends Themselves Over the Tragic Death of Her Three Children Set on Fire by Their Mother, Joyce

The family of Kim Aspero has spoken out in defense following the horrifying tragedy involving her three children, who were allegedly set on fire by their mother, Joyce. According to them, they had long tried to convince Joyce and her family to seek medical help, but they refused out of fear of being labeled as “crazy.”

Kim Aspero’s niece shared that they did everything they could to help Joyce, but her side of the family would not accept the help. She said the incident is incredibly painful, and they deeply wish they could have done something to prevent it.

They also pleaded with the public to stop casting blame and hurling harsh words, especially from people who don’t know the full story. In response to a netizen, Kim’s niece wrote:

“Yes. Our uncle talked to her parents before, saying she needed a check-up. But her parents and even she herself refused, saying they weren’t crazy. The truth is, Tita had too much pride. She didn’t want to be helped. People don’t know what we’ve been doing for her. There’s no point in blaming anyone now—it already happened.
But of course, the thought never leaves our minds… that maybe, just maybe, we could’ve done something.
We just wish those who speak ill would stop, especially when they don’t know what really happened. And you weren’t there to tell us what we should’ve done, because we know we did our part. They were the ones who chose to distance themselves.
Thank you for your sympathy, Yumi.”

Another relative added:

“If only you knew, B, how much support we gave her. But she was the one who didn’t want the help.”

Meanwhile, someone also raised the issue of whether ₱2,500 was enough for a week’s expenses. With three kids and a husband who’s a policeman allegedly cheating with another woman, the situation was extremely tough.

₱2,500 can only be enough for a family of five if expenses are managed extremely carefully—but in many situations, it falls short, especially without additional support from the spouse.

Infidelity is a deeply painful and sensitive issue. If there’s still a chance to fix things, counseling or therapy—whether as a couple or individually—might help. But if your emotional or physical safety is at risk, you may need to consider whether to stay or leave.

Take care of yourself. Don’t let pain and anger consume you. Self-care is vital, especially for your emotional well-being. Seek support from family, friends, or a professional counselor.