So anyway, someone asked if I would still live in our house if my husband dies. You know, our marriage doesn’t end just because one of us is gone. As the legal wife, I have the right to stay in our home even if he’s no longer here. But if my presence in the house would cause conflict, I’m willing to leave. I’m already old. I’ve experienced a lot in life. I’ve learned many things. I can survive even if I’m alone.

Of course, we can’t predict what will happen. Just because someone is older doesn’t mean they’ll pass away first. Sometimes, the young ones die ahead of the older ones. So if it is God’s will that he goes before I do, whatever he leaves behind won’t be an issue for me. For the sake of peace — both mine and everyone else’s — I’m willing to leave and live on my own. I know myself well, and I know I can survive on my own.

So the point of my answer is: it depends. It depends on the situation when he’s gone. And it depends on how I feel. Even if they say they want me to stay here forever, if I’m not happy here once Freddy is gone, I’ll leave. I’ll go find a life where I can be happy. And if they’re not happy with me staying once Freddy is gone, I don’t want to be the reason for anyone’s misery. I don’t want my whole being to be judged again just because I loved someone.

I don’t want to be blamed for sins I didn’t commit. I don’t want to be a victim of situations I didn’t create. I don’t want to be blamed or resented — it’s not my fault that I loved. And until the very end, I want only happy memories to be what remains with me. Because of course, life won’t be easy once he’s gone. Losing a loved one is never easy. Even when we lose a pet, we cry a lot. What more a person who’s been with us every day?

So if staying here will only cause more pain for me or for others around us, then I won’t stay. We all deserve a happy and peaceful life, especially if we’ve tried to be good people, even just a little.

Surprise! You gave me money. There are flowers, too! I love you. I love you. I just posted earlier about how you gave me money. I’m really so lucky with my husband. Thank you, Lord, for sending me the right person.

After several days of mourning by the family, loved ones, and those close to the heart of Freddy Aguilar, the legendary OPM folk singer-songwriter, his Last Will and Testament is still being talked about on social media — especially the reports that he left his money and properties to his wife Jovie Albao (also known as Asadelli Aguilar). Because of this, Jovie was reportedly brought to tears after reading Freddy’s will.

But how true is this?

Jovie Albao recently shared an emotional post about the final moments of her husband, legendary OPM artist Freddy Aguilar, who passed away at age 72 at the Philippine Heart Center.

“Perhaps the reason you wanted to hold my hand at that time instead of me holding yours — para ka nahihirapan — was because you knew I wouldn’t let go, but you had to. You always told me that no matter what we do, we can’t stop time. Now I understand.

We may have run out of time, but thank you for spending your remaining moments holding my hands, kissing me, and telling me how much you love me. Thank you that until your final moments, you kept repeating La ilaha illallah. It gives me comfort knowing that wherever you are now, you are at peace.”

Freddy Aguilar was buried immediately in accordance with Islamic rites on May 27, 2025, which is why no wake was held. Muslim tradition requires burial within 24 hours of death out of respect.

According to Jovie, Freddy’s first day at his final resting place at the Manila Islamic Cemetery felt peaceful. In a Facebook post, she shared a photo at Freddy’s grave along with another emotional message:

“I understand that the hardest night for a person is the first night in the grave. However, I am not here out of worry. I am confident that due to your faith in Allah, your first night was peaceful.

I am here to rest. I try to sleep at home, but our house doesn’t feel like home without you. I know you said, ‘Don’t cry the night before I go.’ But just like I always cry more when you comfort me, I’ll shed a few more tears today, tomorrow, and every time I think of you — until I can smile again when I think of you.”

In another post, Jovie made a promise to her late husband:

“I will live a good life so I can meet you in Jannah. Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’un. To Allah we belong, and to Allah we shall return. This is not goodbye. Just farewell for now. Mahal na mahal kita. Until we meet again, babe.”

We all know how long Ka-Freddy worked in the music industry. According to www.mapombi.com, Freddy Aguilar’s estimated net worth reached $5 million USD or ₱275 million.

Meanwhile, rumors continue to circulate that Jovie broke down in tears after reading Freddy’s will. But how true is this?

In our opinion: No one really knows the contents of someone’s last will and testament except their lawyer and immediate family. It is impossible — and inappropriate — to spread such private legal matters on social media. These are confidential.