My new wife suddenly asked to sleep with my stepchild. I happened to look through the door and was shocked by the scene inside.

I am 35 years old, living in Quezon City, divorced and have a 6-year-old stepdaughter named Kiara. My ex-wife Mariel had betrayed me, so I held a deep grudge. I forbade her from seeing or contacting my child—as revenge to make her regret it for the rest of her life. After the divorce, Mariel went to work abroad like many OFWs (Filipino overseas workers), I heard she went to Dubai.

Half a year later, I quickly married Lia. Lia is a virgin, gentle and kind, working as a preschool teacher at the barangay daycare. I met Lia when I went with friends to distribute charity gifts at San Isidro Church in Antipolo; she often came to help the nuns take care of the children on weekends. That day, seeing Lia playing with the children in the church yard, I thought: this could be a good mother for my daughter. I selfishly thought of my child first, but I also sincerely loved Lia.

Understanding that Lia—a girl who had never been married—would be criticized for marrying a divorced man like me, I took care of her and her family with all my heart. I gave Lia money to send back to Bulacan to help her parents fix the roof and re-tiled the floor. Lia’s parents didn’t like me at first, but seeing my perseverance and sincerity, they gradually grew fond of me. Since living together, Lia has loved Kiara like her own daughter.

Usually, my wife and I sleep in one room, and Kiara sleeps in her own room. But recently, Lia suddenly said she wanted to sleep with her child; Kiara also chirped: “I want to sleep with Lia’s mother for a few days.” I found it strange but still nodded—the closer we are, the stronger our feelings become.

That night, around 8pm, Lia went to Kiara’s room, saying she was going to read a story before bed. Around 9pm, I walked by and opened the dark wooden door of her room slightly to see what they were doing. The sight before me left me speechless.

Kiara was holding Lia’s phone and making a video call. I only heard a greeting on the other end and recognized Mariel’s voice—my ex-wife. Anger flared up. I didn’t want her to contact my daughter; in my eyes, she didn’t deserve to be a mother. I rushed over and snatched the phone from Kiara’s hand, intending to pull Lia back to the room to talk, when she burst into tears:

“Dad, don’t yell at Lia. I was crying and asking Lia to call Mariel. Don’t yell at Lia, I’m sorry…”

Hearing my daughter cry, my heart softened. I hugged her and comforted her for a while. I promised not to yell at Lia anymore, and Kiara stopped crying and obediently went to bed and covered herself with a blanket.

Back in the room, Lia looked at me and said in a low voice:

“I know you’re angry with your ex-wife. But Kiara didn’t do anything wrong. We get to see our parents, why would you force her not to see her biological mother? I understand that you’re still hurt, but I just feel sorry for her. What’s wrong with a child, brother…”

I didn’t reply, nor did I get angry anymore. There was still a thorn in my heart that was hard to remove—the old wound from Mariel’s betrayal. But I also understood that I was wrong to force my child to cut ties with her mother. Maybe I needed more time to let go of my hatred.

Through this incident, I respected Lia even more. In the Philippines, everyone knows that jealousy is a common thing in marriage, especially when it comes to exes. Yet Lia believed me, wasn’t jealous of Mariel, and secretly contacted me just because she thought about Kiara. She chose to do the hardest thing: stand by the child. I was extremely grateful to her.

I didn’t promise anything that night. But in my mind, for the first time in years, I thought about opening the door: letting Kiara see her mother on a video call, or occasionally in public—all for her, and no one else. Maybe in the parish yard after mass, under the big acacia tree in front of the church, where the kids played every Sunday afternoon.

I used to think I was protecting her by building walls. Turns out, Lia taught me that sometimes protecting is softening my heart, letting her keep her bond with the person who gave her life. And maybe only love can bring down the resentment in me—little by little, like the tiny yellow light in Kiara’s bedroom that night, warming long after the call ended.